September 10, 2010 by Solomon II
If you’re gaming women over the age of 25, presenting yourself as a hapless beta eager to commit and provide for a family can actually work in your favor at times. You won’t get same night sex, but you’ll get laid soon enough for sure.
I’m no master PUA. I don’t get laid by beautiful women every other weekend. But in comparison to the general public, I do ok. After a quick count back through the past few years, I average a different woman about every two to three months. It’s nothing to really brag about, but I’m happy with it because I sleep with or casually date some pretty decent looking women – young, in shape, and at least a 7 on the scale.
I’ve never been with a 10. I’ve banged boat loads of 7s, about a half dozen 8s, and two 9s.
One of my friends is dating a 10. I mean a perfect, jaw-dropping, every man and woman in the club stops in amazement when she walks in 10. She’s a 5’9” half Latina half American Indian fitness instructor with a tiny waist and large natural C cups. Dear god almighty it hurts just thinking about her.
A few weeks ago we were all hanging out in a club and she was leaning in talking to me. She said “I wish Jeremy would just settle down. We’re too old to be out clubbing like this.” She’s 26 years old, by the way.
Thinking there was no way in hell I’d ever get her to leave my buddy – her 6’3” Abercrombie & Fitch model lookalike boyfriend, I decided to try a different approach on her. I tossed out the game, the negs, the framing, etc. and simply said:
“I agree. We really are too old to be partying like this. I’m really at the point in my life where I just want to settle down with a woman I love, have a family, and enjoy the next phase of my life. I know it sounds strange to hear a man say this, but I think I’m finally ready for a baby.”
Her eyes dilated. She put her hand on my elbow. With her boyfriend not ten feet away (albeit looking the other direction ordering more shots) she leaned in to me and said “You know, you’re a good man. If I wasn’t with Jeremy, I would so be with you.” Then she kissed me half on the lips/half on my chin and smiled.
She waited a few seconds to gauge my reaction.
I said nothing. I just looked at her.
She said “We’re always in a group. Why don’t we just ever hang out together? We can do some grownup stuff like check out a museum or see a show”.
About that time, the lights came on in the club. Closing time. Jeremy went out to hail a cab and told me to round the girls up and get them to the curb. On our way out, she said to me “Where are you traveling to next for work?” I said “Vegas” which was a lie. Then she said “That sounds nice…”
She was clearly waiting for me to invite her.
I put her in the cab with her boyfriend – one of my good friends – and sent them off. It’s been two weeks, and I haven’t spoken to her since.
I’m not going to bang my buddy’s girlfriend. But if I wanted to, I could have had my very first 10. I haven’t said a word to my buddy about this, and I’m not going to. He knows who he’s dealing with, and there’s a reason he avoids commitment with her like the plague.
Beta Bait works. I actually mentioned the B word (babies) to a perfect 10 at a club and it worked like a fucking charm. So if you bump into a former party girl who has all of a sudden decided to become the traditional Little House on the Prairie wifely type, try this approach.
REMINDER: This will only work on women whose biological clocks are ticking louder than a freight train.
THOUGHT: I’m not sure how this would work in a cold approach since I’ve never done it. I’ve known this girl for about 4 months, so she’s comfortable with me. I’m not sure to what extent this changes the dynamic.
SUGGESTED READING: Tough Times are a Bounty for Betas by Chateau
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